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The 'ends justify the means' philosophy in high-control groups & spiritual abuse
What does it mean if you, a partner, or a group, believe that the ends always justify the means in a situation? It means that ANY...
Aug 5, 20241 min read


6 years of my life in snapshots
When I was in the cult there were so many things we couldn’t talk about. There were the vows of silence and the threats they carried....
May 3, 20242 min read


If you are the light, why hide your actions in the darkness?
If they believe in equality, why are they above the law? If they are living by truth why deny the facts, threaten and silence people? If...
Jul 19, 20232 min read


Culty checklist; go through this before you get involved in a new group dynamic
Before you join that new yoga class, martial arts gym, self-help group, meditation school, MLM, office etc.! Do this checklist ✔️ ❤️ Do...
Feb 21, 20232 min read


What I learnt about love after leaving a tantra cult
One of my biggest healing and de-conditioning processes as a free-thinking person is around love and relationships. The cult I was in was...
Feb 19, 20232 min read


We're not meant to have all the answers: belief systems and certainty
I used to have all the answers. Not just for me, but for other people too! The arrogance. That brought me a dangerous level of certainty....
Jan 30, 20233 min read
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