Polarity doctrine
Polarity doctrine is well-established in many traditional religions/belief systems and even in much new age & conspiracy stuff. I’ll...
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- Apr 5
- 2 min
Who'd get into a cult anyway?!
A common misconception about cults is that people who get, and stay, in are lacking intelligence and awareness. Cults recruit people with...
- Feb 21
- 2 min
Culty checklist; go through this before you get involved in a new group dynamic
Before you join that new yoga class, martial arts gym, self-help group, meditation school, MLM, office etc.! Do this checklist ✔️ ❤️ Do...
- Feb 19
- 2 min
What I learnt about love after leaving a tantra cult
One of my biggest healing and de-conditioning processes as a free-thinking person is around love and relationships. The cult I was in was...
- Jan 30
- 3 min
We're not meant to have all the answers: belief systems and certainty
I used to have all the answers. Not just for me, but for other people too! The arrogance. That brought me a dangerous level of certainty....
- Jan 18
- 3 min
Boundaries and owning your no
‘That’s just your ego’ 'you're in your mind right now' ‘you need to be more surrendered’ ‘the feminine receives’ ‘you aren’t embracing...
- Dec 27, 2022
- 3 min
On Family
This time of year, almost a year since I left the cult, has me reflecting on the meaning of family and unity. In the cult, as in many...
- Dec 9, 2022
- 2 min
Are only certain activities 'spiritual'?
There isn’t anything spiritual about this, apart from everything. When I was in a cult we were told that only certain activities were...
- Dec 3, 2022
- 3 min
Accepting all of yourself (even the hard bits)
Self acceptance as a foundation for love and evolution When I accept myself, who exactly am I accepting? We have different labels,...
- Nov 27, 2022
- 3 min
Why are cults judgemental?
In the cult I was in, as in many cults, we considered ourselves superior to all others. We were taught that this was the ony authentic,...
- Nov 14, 2022
- 3 min
The hard core of Self-care
Anything to do with slowing down, and going at your own pace, has come to be considered inferior in patriarchal grind culture; where it...
- Sep 26, 2022
- 2 min
Recycling inter-generational trauma
This weekend I had a powerful ceremony in which I felt how inter-generational trauma can affect our thinking patterns, and especially our...
- Jun 13, 2021
- 3 min
What is shame and how can I be free from it?
Many of us are conditioned from an early age to believe that our bodies, and our sexuality, and even ourselves are in some way shameful...
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