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We're not meant to have all the answers: belief systems and certainty
I used to have all the answers. Not just for me, but for other people too! The arrogance. That brought me a dangerous level of certainty....
Jan 30, 20233 min read


Boundaries and owning your no
‘That’s just your ego’ 'you're in your mind right now' ‘you need to be more surrendered’ ‘the feminine receives’ ‘you aren’t embracing...
Jan 18, 20233 min read


On Family
This time of year, almost a year since I left the cult, has me reflecting on the meaning of family and unity. In the cult, as in many...
Dec 27, 20223 min read


Are only certain activities 'spiritual'?
There isn’t anything spiritual about this, apart from everything. When I was in a cult we were told that only certain activities were...
Dec 9, 20222 min read


Accepting all of yourself (even the hard bits)
Self acceptance as a foundation for love and evolution When I accept myself, who exactly am I accepting? We have different labels,...
Dec 3, 20223 min read


Why are cults judgemental?
In the cult I was in, as in many cults, we considered ourselves superior to all others. We were taught that this was the ony authentic,...
Nov 27, 20223 min read


The hard core of Self-care
Anything to do with slowing down, and going at your own pace, has come to be considered inferior in patriarchal grind culture; where it...
Nov 14, 20223 min read


Recycling inter-generational trauma
This weekend I had a powerful ceremony in which I felt how inter-generational trauma can affect our thinking patterns, and especially our...
Sep 26, 20222 min read


What is shame and how can I be free from it?
Many of us are conditioned from an early age to believe that our bodies, and our sexuality, and even ourselves are in some way shameful...
Jun 13, 20213 min read
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